Just Engaged… now what?

1. Celebrate the Moment

• Share the news with family and friends!

• Take engagement photos to commemorate the milestone.

• Maybe plan an engagement party…

2. Establish Your Vision

• Discuss the style of your dream wedding (formal, casual, destination, etc.).

• Think about potential wedding dates and/or desired season or weather.

• Start talking about a budget.

3. Begin Organizing

• Create a wedding planning binder or use a digital planning tool.

• Draft an initial guest list to gauge the size of the event.

• Research venues and check availability for your preferred date.

4. Assemble Your Dream Team

• Research and hire a wedding planner, or DIY following this guide!

• Contact and book key vendors early, including:

  • Venue

  • Photographer/videographer

  • DJ/MC (or band/musicians)

  • Caterer

  • Florist

• Consider a theme or color palette to guide your vendor choices.

5. Legal and Financial Planning

• Obtain and review marriage license requirements.

• Discuss financial expectations and create a joint budget.

• Consider creating a prenuptial agreement, if applicable.

6. Start Shopping

• Begin looking for the wedding dress and schedule fittings.

• Explore attire options for the wedding party.

• Consider accessories, shoes, and other wardrobe details.

7. Plan Pre-Wedding Events

• Schedule your engagement photos.

• Discuss bachelor/bachelorette party ideas with your wedding party.

• Plan any showers or pre-wedding gatherings.

8. Save the Date

• Order and send save-the-dates after finalizing the guest list.

• Build a wedding website for guest information.

9. Focus on Personal Touches

• Brainstorm ceremony and reception ideas to reflect your personalities.

• Decide on vows—will they be traditional or personal?

• Choose special songs for key moments (e.g., first dance, parent dances).

10. Enjoy the Process

• Take time to enjoy being engaged!

• Schedule date nights or small breaks from planning to keep things fun!.